{"id":4127,"date":"2016-03-15T16:28:43","date_gmt":"2016-03-15T16:28:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/marniemarcus.com\/unplugged\/?p=4127"},"modified":"2016-03-15T16:43:45","modified_gmt":"2016-03-15T16:43:45","slug":"thriving-again-stand-up-for-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marniekuhns.com\/unplugged\/2016\/03\/15\/thriving-again-stand-up-for-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Thriving Again: Stand Up for Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If the challenges you face have to do with another person whose chronic unacceptable behavior causes you pain, you could be in a situation where you&#8217;re being used or even abused.<\/p>\n<p>In order to thrive again, you need clear boundaries about what you will and will not accept from others. 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