{"id":2900,"date":"2015-02-07T17:26:58","date_gmt":"2015-02-07T17:26:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/marniepehrson.com\/unplugged\/?p=2900"},"modified":"2015-02-07T18:13:51","modified_gmt":"2015-02-07T18:13:51","slug":"on-judging","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marniekuhns.com\/unplugged\/2015\/02\/07\/on-judging\/","title":{"rendered":"On Judging"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2901\" src=\"http:\/\/marniepehrson.com\/unplugged\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/WreckedNissan-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"Wrecked Nissan\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/marniekuhns.com\/unplugged\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/WreckedNissan-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/marniekuhns.com\/unplugged\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/WreckedNissan.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Last month I wrecked my Nissan, and it ended up in a local body shop for repairs. When I got the car back, I noticed the shop put the old parts into my car.<\/p>\n<p>For me this was a bit annoying. Now I had to figure out how to dispose of them. I was curious as to why they would do that anyway. I\u2019ve never had a shop give me the old parts before.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Were they too lazy to get rid of them?<\/li>\n<li>Or perhaps they were super frugal and thought I\u2019d like to sell them for scrap?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Finally, I asked a friend who is a whiz with cars, and he said,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It\u2019s actually an indicator of a good shop. It allows you to see the condition of the old parts. You can take them to another shop for assessment.\u00a0 This way you can get a second opinion on the need to replace them. It\u2019s a courtesy.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The minute he explained the rationale, I knew I had incorrectly judged the people at the body shop. My first thought was, \u201cThis is a good example of ignorance leading to incorrect judgment of other people\u2019s actions.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It gave me pause to consider how many times I\u2019ve incorrectly judged someone\u2019s motivations or thought processes because I was ignorant of some key piece of information. It probably happens a lot more than I care to admit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last month I wrecked my Nissan, and it ended up in a local body shop for repairs. When I got the car back, I noticed the shop put the old parts into my car. For me this was a bit annoying. Now I had to figure out how to dispose of them. 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