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In business, quality relationships are gold, and social media can be a wonderful way to build them. On the other hand, it’s a great way to destroy relationships and ruin your reputation as a professional. There’s something about typing or texting that makes people lower their inhibitions and say things they never would say to someone’s face.<\/p>\n

You might be using social media inappropriately if you fall into one of these three categories.<\/p>\n

An Agenda Pusher<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Would you walk up to a total stranger and say, “Let’s be friends. Oh and by the way, you really need to sign up for my multi-level-marketing group.”<\/p>\n

You might be an Agenda Pusher if…<\/p>\n

– You round up friends on Facebook so you can immediately post your product or service on their wall.<\/p>\n

– You follow your competitors on Facebook and graze through all their friends, adding them to your list.<\/p>\n

– You round up people to promote your products or services but never “have time” to promote them in return.<\/p>\n

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\n– You post your events on other people’s event pages.<\/p>\n

– You push your multi-level marketing product several times a day.<\/p>\n

Over-Automated<\/strong><\/h2>\n

I’m all for using automation to stream your blog updates and articles onto Twitter or Facebook, but too much of that without any personality mixed in just bores people.<\/p>\n

You might be over-automated if…<\/p>\n

– Your Twitter and Facebook accounts are just a string of RSS feeds and quotes. You never take the time to post anything yourself or bring your personality into the mix.<\/p>\n

– You don’t write your own articles. You buy private label rights (PLR) and spin them into a dozen variations.<\/p>\n

– You rarely, if ever, log into your Facebook account. You don’t reply to comments or join in conversations on other people’s walls.<\/p>\n

– You never post anything personal.<\/p>\n


\n<\/a>TMI (Too Much Information)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

While the over-automated social media user never interjects anything personal, the TMI user shares too much personal information.<\/p>\n

“If you don’t want your mom to know about it, then it’s not appropriate for Facebook,” says Luanna Rodham of Marketing Virtual Assistance<\/a>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"\"<\/a>You might be giving too much information if …<\/p>\n

– You post about your bodily functions on Facebook or Twitter.<\/p>\n

– You post about the argument you just had with your spouse.<\/p>\n

– You air your grievances about your employer or family members.<\/p>\n

– You post immodest photos of yourself.<\/p>\n

– Being negative and griping most of the time.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Can you think of anything you’d add to this list? Would love to hear your suggestions!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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