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Perhaps we do for a while, but do we have to keep on suffering from them or can we create a new life?<\/p>\n<p>Here are my thoughts on the subject&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/embed\/RcEwgBv8s3Y?rel=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.marniepehrson.com\/createyourlife.php\" title=\"create your own amazing life\" target=\"_blank\">Join me for the Create Your Own Amazing Life Workshop coming up soon<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The old saying goes, &#8220;You&#8217;ve made your bed, now you have to lie in it.&#8221; Is that really true? When we make certain choices, do we just have to suffer the consequences? 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