{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Marnie Pehrson Kuhns","provider_url":"https:\/\/marniekuhns.com\/unplugged","author_name":"Marnie Pehrson Kuhns","author_url":"https:\/\/marniekuhns.com\/unplugged\/author\/marniep\/","title":"Are You Stuck in 'Peace at Any Price?' - Marnie Pehrson Kuhns","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"Qr33C9OS8E\"><a href=\"https:\/\/marniekuhns.com\/unplugged\/2011\/01\/01\/are-you-stuck-in-peace-at-any-price\/\">Are You Stuck in &#8216;Peace at Any Price?&#8217;<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/marniekuhns.com\/unplugged\/2011\/01\/01\/are-you-stuck-in-peace-at-any-price\/embed\/#?secret=Qr33C9OS8E\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Are You Stuck in &#8216;Peace at Any Price?&#8217;&#8221; &#8212; Marnie Pehrson Kuhns\" data-secret=\"Qr33C9OS8E\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n<\/script>\n","description":"As a \"Peacemaker\" on the Enneagram Personality scale, I've lived most of my life by the unspoken mantra, \"peace at any price.\" If I thought expressing my feelings would make someone upset or rock the boat, I kept them to myself. If I thought what I had to say could be construed as nagging or argumentative, I said nothing.  You know that old saying, \"If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all.\" That was me. I'm not saying I never said anything bad, never blew my stack or got angry. On the contrary, I'm the master at bottling up my emotions so long they erupt like Mt. Vesuvius.  Besides blowing up in odd moments when the last straw is added to the camel's back, there are other problems associated with the peace at any price operating system...","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=ideamarketers-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0911207023"}